Monday, April 03, 2006

love yourself first .

This time I feel like I want to write in English , if you may accept that .

There is a lots of subjects that we face is everyday , but only 1 thing that we never stop talking about it and I would like you to share it with me.

Love , The Passion love .

Yes and I want to talk about it more and more,,,

What does love do for us from inside?

It’s a magical word that got all the secret to a great life .

The definition of love is :

· a strong positive emotion of regard and affection; "his love for his work"; "children need a lot of love"

· any object of warm affection or devotion; "the theater was her first love"; "he has a passion for cock fighting";

· have a great affection or liking for; "I love French food"; "She loves her boss and works hard for him"

· beloved: a beloved person; used as terms of endearment

· a deep feeling of sexual desire and attraction; "their love left them indifferent to their surroundings"; "she was his first love"

· get pleasure from; "I love cooking"

· a score of zero in tennis or squash; "it was 40 love"

· be enamored or in love with; "She loves her husband deeply"

· roll in the hay: have sexual intercourse with; "This student sleeps with everyone in her dorm"; "Adam knew Eve"; "Were you ever intimate with this man?"

· sexual love: sexual activities (often including sexual intercourse) between two people; "his lovemaking disgusted her"; "he hadn't had any love in months"; "he has a very complicated love life"

So love got many meanings and it’s the fuel to go via this life.

What kind of love me want and me miss .

As a said before , passion love

Toward your self , toward your family , and toward your friends , and then to your work.

How many of us love to go to work? I guess few

How many of us love to sit with his family ( kids , husband , wife , parent ) and I mean here we do it with a really big smile inside our heart .

How many of us love to sit with the people and listen to the gossip and still love his friends like he first entered?

do you You know how to start this love?

Love your self first , and you will see how everything will change.

Love your self

1. Stop all criticism: Criticism never changes a thing. Refuse to criticize yourself. Accept yourself exactly as you are. Everybody changes. When you criticize yourself, your changes are negative. When you approve of yourself, your changes are positive.

2. Don't scare yourself: Stop terrorizing yourself with your thoughts. It's a dreadful way to live. Find a mental image that gives you pleasure (mine is yellow roses), and immediately switch your scary thought to a pleasure thought.

3. Be gentle and kind and patient: Be gentle with yourself. Be kind to yourself. Be patient
with yourself as you learn the new ways of thinking. Treat yourself as you would someone you
really loved.

4. Be kind to your mind: Self-hatred is only hating your own thoughts. Don't hate yourself for having the thoughts. Gently change the thoughts.

5. Praise yourself: Criticism breaks the inner spirit. Praise builds it up. Praise yourself as much as you can. Tell yourself how well you are doing with every little thing.

6. Support yourself: Find ways to support yourself. Reach out to friends, and allow them to help you. It is being strong to ask for help when you need it.

7. Be loving to your negatives: Acknowledge that you created them to fulfill a need. Now you are finding new, positive ways to fulfill those needs. So. lovingly release the old negative patterns.

8. Take care of your body: Learn about nutrition. What kind of fuel does your body need to have optimum energy and vitality? Learn about exercise. What kind of exercise can you enjoy? Cherish and revere the temple you live in.

9. Mirror work: Look into your own eyes often. Express this growing sense of love you have for yourself. Forgive yourself looking into the mirror. Talk to your parents looking into the mirror. Forgive them, too. At least once a day, say: "I love you, I really love you!"

10. LOVE YOURSELF - DO IT NOW! Don't wait until you get well or lose the weight, or get the new job, or find the new relationship. Begin NOW - do the best you can.

The Magic Of Love

Love is like magic
And it always will be.
For love still remains
Life's sweet mystery!!
Love works in ways
That are wondrous and strange
And there's nothing in life
That love cannot change!!
Love can transform
The most commonplace
Into beauty and splendor
And sweetness and grace.
Love is unselfish,
Understanding and kind,
For it sees with its heart
And not with its mind!!
Love is the answer
That everyone seeks...
Love is the language,
That every heart speaks.
Love can't be bought,
It is priceless and free,
Love, like pure magic,
Is life's sweet mystery!!


3ateeja said...

Love your self


بدينا نفكر صح هاه لووول

lawyer said...

ريما حبيبتي

قعدت اقرا موضوعج بتركيز
يحتاج ورقه و قلم و تدوين
افكار وايد و معلومات اروع

انتي تدرين انا اكثر وحده اتأيد نظره حبي نفسج

عشان تقدرين تعطين
لكن مرات الانسان يتكل على اشخاص معينيه يحتاج منهم هذا الدعم ...

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