What is a friendship?
Friendship isn't always easily described, Instead of different words; however, we're stuck with simple adjectives. Close friend. Best friend. Childhood friend. Intimate friend. Trusted friend. Beloved friend. But whether you use adjectives or different words, few could deny the nearly infinite meaning in such a simple word.
Friends are special* people. We can't pick our family, and we're sorely limited in the number of them at any rate. Society and mores (and often our own conscience) dictate we select a single mate. But our friends can be as diverse and infinite as the adjectives we choose. Our friends, in a very real sense, reflect the choices we make in life.
*(Extra Nice = special)
what is a Cyber friends ?
As the Internet grows and becomes a part of our lives, it brings with it a unique opportunity to meet people we likely would never have met in any other way. And very often, those people we meet on line will become friends. Sometimes, very close friends.
Love and friendship
Platonic love is very much a part of any close friendship. But such a love doesn't always stay platonic. Sometimes it turns into passionate love. Crossing that line, between friendship and love, can be both beautiful and extremely difficult.
Sometimes in life, you find a special friend. Someone who changes your life just by being part of it. Someone who makes you laugh until you can't stop. Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world. Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it. This is forever friendship. When you're down and the world seems dark and empty, your forever friend lifts you up in spirit and makes that dark and empty world suddenly seem bright and full. Your forever friend gets you through the hard times, the sad times and the confused times. If you turn and walk away, your forever friend follows. If you lose your way, your forever friend guides you and cheers you on. Your forever friend hold your hand and tells you that everything is going to be okay. And if you find such a friend, you feel happy and complete because you need not worry. You have a forever friend, and forever has no end.
Why In kuwait , we are not allowed to have a male friend?
What if I Only find my perfect friend from another sex ?
Why we should stick with the rules of beeing afraied that something will happend between a woman and a man ?
you just never know who will be your friend,unless you see something missing in you and he is completing it .
why do we call it in kuwaiti ( 3eeeb ) if someone got a friend from another sex?
Why should we always think bad toward the 2 human and we neglected the soul ?
why do always sex have to be involve in all this ?
i know i am complaining alot , but i have a couple of true friends that i cant have them in my real life , and this well lead me in a deep pain :(
why? because i am married and i am kuwaiti woman , it's not allowed to have male friend .
14 comments:
I am blessed with a as you call it forever friend. She is my true best friend. El7mdelah for her. Life without family and friends is no life. El7mdelah I am blessed with both.
Great topic Rum Rum.
the splendid :
i hop i didn't , i like it that way, coz the kuwaiti men still not ready to this kind of relationship . but i feel sorry about our selfs :)
coz we always think wrongly , i dont know if this issue 7ram or 7alal , not have a friendship between 2 , i hop i will see the answer as well .
if 7aram i have to remine silent!
Hussa-g:
allah yehaneech yaraab :)
"If you turn and walk away, your forever friend follows." I really like that part.
As for relationships, sometimes there are things not meant to happen, as sad it may sound...but that's the truth.
It's a comfort that there IS someone out there who is willing to be there for you anytime you need him.
And only one..who will always follow you & wait patiently for you for the rest of his life.
True friends are rare. Soulmates happen once in your lifetime.
hi , if something not allowed from alaha and you are thinking its normal its realy reema a problem
bleive me what ever u think you will compare your best frind with your futre man (( husband)) and you will find that your best frind is better and simply answer coz he dont show you every thing in his personality ,alaha never says some thing 7aram mne o al6erej :)
good luck and rethink about what u says
great minds think alike;-)
mini-r:
Soulmates happen once in your lifetime.
this is the exactly word for it.
does they exist!
meshari :
enshala i will think again and again and again, but i have a Q for you ,
does the husband or the wife must have the friendship soul ?
and as you know , we must got married with some rules, you never have the chance to pick your man ;)
If he is not ur soul mate ?
but he is a good man to live and with you have never been with another one ?
it's a long story meshari , i wish you got my point here
i am talking about friendship, you never hidanything from ur not afread to go threw ur pass with , ur teenage loveing from the first sign .... ambeeeeh lots of small details you cant ever say it to your husband or wife , coz you dont wanna heart their feeling!
even if something happend in the pass , unlike a friend , he will understand that ;)
a3sab :
i feel what your aiming at .
hug : thanks sweets
your more than welcome , but i will have to keep this post for awail , i really want to know what do kuwaiti women and men think about this issue .
Rima:
أنا عندي أصدقاء رجال...بس لو ما كان زوجي وايد متفهم و واثق فيني و في أصدقائنا اللي بالنهايه يصيرون أصدقائه بعد شان صارت حياتى مزعجه نوعا ما...مو عن شي صديقاتي الله يخليهم حقي بس هم ساعات الأنسان يحتاج أحد من الجنس الآخر عشان يسمع وجهة نظره
nice topic
but it's TLTR= Too Long To Read
nanonano:
forst of all i am really haPpY to see you here in my blog, it's a pleasure :)
i guess it's a blessing that you have a husband like your husband :)
lord:
i really dont know what to answer you , but the main point is to Read in blogs , next time i will make it short , but keep on comeing :/
we are women , we like to talk :)
First i wanna say that i thank my GOD for blessing me with my friends.. second of all,about love&friendship..i`v been there! my only lover was my best friend, and i think the best love a person can have is after beeing friend with the guy/girl,but now i lost the love and the friendship :)
nothing is wrong with having male friends if u're a woman.. what century do u live in??
but since u're married its a different story.. u can still have male friends as long as ur usband knows that u do and trusts u. simple.
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